It’s Okay!

DISCLAIMER -Don’t read it if you hold a tiny mentality.

If you decide to read, read it a little fast.

Hand, Like, Thumb, Up, Confirm, Okay, Go

It’s okay to not feel good

It’s okay to not like your name or surname

It’s okay to feel like a woman when you’re a man

It’s okay to have sex before marriage

It’s okay to sit with your legs wide open even when you’re a girl

It’s okay if you feel like masturbating multiple times in a day

It’s okay if you don’t want to wear a bra

It’s okay to hug and kiss in public

It’s okay to flirt

It’s okay to not believe in religion

It’s okay if you don’t like your parents

It’s okay if you don’t like the place you’re born in

It’s okay to have a hairy body when you’re a woman

It’s okay if you’re a man and you often cry

It’s okay to stay out late night

It’s okay if you don’t follow rituals and traditions

It’s okay if you’re pregnant before marriage

It’s okay to be vulnerable

It’s okay if you don’t like the national and world leaders

It’s okay to fall in love with someone of the same gender

It’s okay to adopt a child

It’s okay to have sexual fantasies

It’s okay to have dreams which are different from the rest

It’s okay to walk, talk, behave like the opposite gender

It’s okay to stay alone and not want to get married

It’s okay if you don’t want to have a child

It’s okay if you’re blunt and outspoken

It’s okay if you wish to settle in another city, country or a planet

It’s okay if you fail in having an offspring

It’s okay if you like wearing a bright lipstick whether you’re a man or a woman

It’s okay if you have a physical disability

It’s okay if you don’t want to be pregnant

It’s okay if you don’t know to speak in English

It’s okay if you like praying behind a closed door or on a mountain top and not at a religious place

It’s okay to be bold, quiet, alone or whatever hell you wanna be

It’s okay if you just want to be the way you are.

Fist, Thumb, Finger, Anatomy, Gesture

What is not okay is….

Mocking people for their way of life

Being judgmental about someone’s way of living. No, you don’t have that right!

Molesting & raping women, animals, men and children

Insulting and discriminating based on colour, caste, religion, gender, financial status etc.

Calling out people anti-nationalists coz they don’t like the government or the national ruling party

Calling women a slut or a prostitute

Assaulting transgenders, women and other vulnerable beings

Killing animals or humans

Greed, selfishness and negative pride

Robbery & theft

Cheating on someone

Shitting in public

Spreading hate

Threatening people of murder, rape and kidnap

Calling out people with disturbing names

Making them feel like they aren’t good enough

Forcing people to kill themselves

Forgetting that you’re a human and you got to be a human until your death!

– The Bold GirlπŸ’‹

Thank you Era for sharing this song in the comments section. While listening to this, I was just smiling with a teary eye. I had not heard this one until you shared it. Guys, you all do not have the slightest idea how your positive comments make my day.

I am a rebel fighting for the right and always find myself all alone in this stupid world coz my heart doesn’t allow me to fuck with people’s emotions. A right soul born in the wrong society, country or planet, whatever you wanna call it.

Era, thank you once again. I have edited this post just to add this song so that everyone feels the positivity and strength to overcome whatever that they have or are still facing. So that they too feel that goodness still prevails in this terrible world and all that we face in life will only make us stronger for a bigger battle.

Stay Strong!

Yes, I am the one this song talks about – Now she’s stronger than you know… A heart of steel starts to grow.

All the life she has seen,
All the meaner side of me.
They took away the prophet’s dream,
For a profit on the street
Now she’s stronger than you know…
A heart of steel starts to grow

Edited four hours later

Β© The Bold Vibe 2019-2020
All Rights Reserved

151 Thoughts

    1. Hey Siddy, where have you been all this while? I hope you’re feeling better now.

      Btw, thank you!😊 I see such things, I can’t hold myself back. I gotta puke it out somewhere.😬


      1. Just busy with work, blogging myself and supporting other bloggers too. πŸ˜…
        Hope you are doing well!

        It’s good to keep your content raw and uncensored, it gives a rather liberating feeling that way. Great post, keep smiling. πŸ€ŸπŸ™‚

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        1. Oh! Have you been blogging?πŸ€” Heheh… I shouldn’t even ask that coz I was off WP for a few days. Just came back yesterday.

          Working and blogging at the same time is such a task.πŸ˜…

          Yes, I am okay rn. Mmm.. yeah, I guess so.😬

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          1. Yea i know I’ve been working and blogging so I know how hard it really is to maintain a balance. Glad you are back though.

            PS.. it’s okay to not feel okay if anything is bothering you in anyway feel free to share. I ain’t a shrink so won’t charge you a fee to listen to you. 😜

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            1. Shrink?🀣🀣

              I was just feeling overloaded with so many things going on so took a break. Kinda okay now.😊 Thanks.

              I will definitely reach out if I wanna talk and there’s nobody to speak with. Luckily haven’t reached that stage and nobody should ever feel that way.


              1. Yes i can understand, based on my experience though don’t wait to reach that dark stage, instead let me entertain you with my nonsensical talks beforehand to divert your mindset from distressing thoughts. πŸ€£πŸ˜‚

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    1. I always flow in the opposite direction of what the society thinks or asks us to follow. What matters for me is, I’m on the right path even when I got to walk alone.

      Thank you for sharing what you felt after reading this post.😊

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                    1. Hmm….. Not exactly. I am talking about those people who don’t say anything at all. Like for example, some people call you a girl if you dance…. Because that’s supposed to be a β€œgirls” thing. You can give a befitting reply to these reply. But you don’t say anything at all. Just remain silent. Don’t even defend yourself.

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                    2. Ahhh.. Okay! Well honestly, not all are strong enough or rather bold enough to give it back. Trust me, no matter how bold I may sound here, I have had days where I just couldn’t speak up. I took shit when I shouldn’t have.

                      There are a lot of aspects involved in one not speaking up. Some are scared, vulnerable etc. And some might be going through some phase and at that moment it wasn’t easy to fight back.

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                    3. It’s not about not being courageous but, about how much can a human take at any point.

                      If your platter is full and you still dumb more food to the already overflowing platter, it’ll spoil the food coz you won’t be able to intake that much. And even if you do, you’ll end-up puking it out or get diarrhoea.

                      So it’s better to eat the extra food when your ready to savour it. Isn’t it?

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  1. I just love how you confront society and its ways in a very straightforward way. If everyone or most of us could do that, changing the way society thinks will be easier! Thank you for writing this❀️

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      1. Yep, I couldn’t agree more…we need more people like you in this world to make it a better place. A lot of people think this is a cliche to wish for the world to become better, but we really need it to be better especially in today’s time.

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        1. Here is where the problem lies. We want someone else to make it better. Why can’t we start it from ourself? It starts from ‘ME’ always and not ‘They’, ‘You’ or anybody else.

          The world is very cruel and no matter how blunt I am, I have at times kept my mouth shut not coz I’m scared but, it’s pointless singing in front of someone who’s deaf.

          You’re too young rn and I am not saying this to make you feel terrible in any way. But, yes, if you give someone else the charge to your life, they’ll ruin it. So we better take charge of our own acts.

          Trust me, nobody will come to save you. You got to speak for yourself. This is how it is.

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            1. Glad you took it positively.😊

              I usually don’t advise or teach life lessons.πŸ˜ƒ Everyone’s life is different. Probably a child your age may have seen many hardships as compared to you or vice versa.

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                1. Hehehe… Is it?

                  Well, not everyone is that lucky. Most of us haven’t been including me.

                  I once wanted to become a Psychiatrist/Counsellor. Glad I didn’t take that as a profession. It would have consumed a lot of my energy.

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  2. Wow, Bold Girl! You’ve written something people often neglect. And you are absolutely right, it’s okay to be different. Here’s to the brave and bold you who decides to speak for those who can’t and for those who feel low at times. Great jobπŸ˜ŽπŸ€—

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            1. Of course, yes!πŸ™„ That was such a dead comment with zero emojis. Like what on earth is wrong with Aye-Ch?πŸ€” Where are the emojis and why didn’t she use it while talking with ‘ME’?πŸ˜’πŸ˜

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  3. BG is officially back!!
    What do I say? Impactful and thought provoking as always!
    Love you for throwing your voice out to all those people who’re doing the ‘it’s not okay’ things, while supporting the others by telling them it’s okay to be whoever they are.

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  4. Society is a huge pain in the ass.
    I just loved how you’ve managed to capture all of it’s flaws in this poem. Your works sure do leave a huge impact on all of us! πŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌπŸ‘πŸΌ

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  5. Very well written and powerful post
    Everybody is unique and should be respected πŸ’™

    While reading it, is listening to this song “The Superheroes by script ”
    All the life she has seen
    All the meaner side of me
    They took away the prophet’s dream
    For a profit on the street

    Now she’s stronger than you know
    A heart of steel starts to grow

    When you’ve been fighting for it all your life
    You’ve been struggling to make things right
    That’s how a superhero learns to fly
    Every day, every hour, turn the pain into power

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      1. Oh, gif girl, you don’t know how happy I am by reading this, that’s you liked this song πŸ’™πŸ’™
        You know what this is one of my fav songs, giving me the strength to fight back always
        Thank you so much πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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        1. Those lines that you’d mentioned, I could so relate to it so, I rushed to listen to it. I didn’t want to reply to you until I hear it. When I heard, I felt more people should hear it when they finish reading my post so I added it here.😊

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          1. I am so glad you listen to it and relate
            As I said before, I was listening to it while reading and felt like sharing it πŸ’™


            1. Hehe okay. Thank you for listening to it while reading this piece.❀️ I’m sure, it was an iceing on the cake for you or maybe a cherry (I don’t know which one you would prefer😬)

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                    1. I was reading something πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…, just saw the sister-sister sister and thought to get back to it, after completing reading that article πŸ˜…πŸ˜…, what was the complete thing

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                    2. Heheheheh…πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

                      I misunderstood your previous comment and replied acc to what I understood but, when I realised what you had written, I deleted it.😬🀣

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  6. Leave that, it was nothing.
    Now, tell me. What should I do if a complete stranger just started following my blog, liked a lot of my posts without reading them and sent weird messages. I mean it’s not that weird but, things like congratulations! Your poems are lovely! You deserve all this! And here cookies for you!
    I’ve been given cookies to eat at least thrice! πŸ˜‚

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        1. Hahahhaah… I was just about to ask you how about calling you – A Man? And then, I saw that it’s your pen name.πŸ˜‚

          I’d still wanna call you ‘A Man’ if you’re okay with it.😬

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