Short Dress

Reblogging my very 1st post since a cute little heart suggested me to do so. Hope y’all like it.😊

The Bold Vibe

I stepped out of my house to watch a movie with my friend at around 6 o’clock that evening. For a change, I decided to wear my new bodycon dress.

As I stepped out, a feeling of uncomfortableness rushed through my body. No, it wasn’t about my dress. I looked pretty and carried it well.

But the eyes that ogled at me, made me think if I made the right decision of wearing it. I’m sure, many of us have gone through this feeling and would completely relate to what I felt.

I wasn’t scared of them but yes, there’s no denying that it really made me a little uneasy. It really did.

My short dress isn’t an invitation nor am I trying to grab your attention. I am a human who can decide for herself what she should wear. It isn’t a collective decision.

It’s 2019 but I don’t…

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  1. “It’s 2019 but I don’t see a change in our thinking whatsoever. A woman is judged, restricted and abused mentally and physically even today.” So true BG. Wonderful message as always! Thanks to the “cute little heart” who asked you to reblog this. I loved reading it!!πŸ€—

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        1. Hehehe.. There is a Blogger on whose posts I commented a lot of times, all of it got moved to spam. I once commented that my comments are probably getting moved to spam and that too got flagged as spam.🀣🀣 I have now given-up on checking her blogs.πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

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          1. I am a girl🀣🀣 I was once a tomboy and now a bit improvement there!!πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

            Have seen my friends drooling over a girl who is beautiful in their eyes!!🀣🀣

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            1. Hahahaha… Ohhh! I misunderstood. I thought, its a guy. Hahahaha…

              Why would you term it as an improvement?πŸ€” Its okay if one is slightly different from the rest.

              Oh! That ‘Bro’ thing hits differently!🀣❀️

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              1. Improvement in terms of violence….I used to fight a lot…my mom used to get angry, she was like “you keep fighting like boys”πŸ˜…πŸ˜… So controlled it…being a “bro” is another feeling 🀣🀣

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                1. Hahahaah.. Wow!!! You gotta teach me how to fight. No no, don’t improve on this one provided you’re not fighting like those ladies who don’t even know why they’re fighting in the 1st place.🀣🀣

                  I avoid getting into fight coz I might end-up murdering them.🀣

                  Yeahhh! I know!

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                    1. I am glad to find my kind of “normal” here. Thanks for your wonderful words. It was wonderful talking to you. Thanks to the recommendation of WP.πŸ’•πŸ’•
                      If you like just pay a visit to my blog when you have time. I really hope you like it!!πŸ€—πŸ€—

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                    2. Yes, yes! I will definitely. There’s no need for you to mention that but yes, I am bit slow as I told you in my last comment.😬

                      Glad for recommendation from WP. Nice talking to you. Are you new here?πŸ€” Coz you’d find people cool with what you are on WP.

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                    3. For a month, I too was not interacting much with people and then when started you use the website more….I found some really good people here!!😊😊

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                    4. I can feel you!! I am still under the process of understanding how it works!! Its requires lots of time and when or if we return to normal life after this ends in this year….it will be difficult to maintain both!!

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                    5. You still are doing well, trust me. It took me a year. For a year, I didn’t interact with a single person. I agree, it’ll be little difficult once this gets over but, for now, don’t think about the future. Nobody knows what’s going to happen.πŸ˜…

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            2. Men fall for every 2nd girl!🀦🀣🀣🀣

              And then they come back to girls like us and keep praising them. And us questioning if they’re in their senses! Feel me?🀣🀣🀣🀣

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              1. Yes…I have listened to hundreds of break up stories of others and then everyday a new crush! “This one is different and I am serious” is a common dailogue.. I completely feel you there!!🀣🀣

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                  1. Glad I met you here even if its virtual! I found you through a recommendation by wordpress while reading a blog!! I usually write anything that comes to mind but majorly on things that all of us know but are not ready to accept it.

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                    1. Ohhhh! You’re talking about the ones that shows towards the end of a post, correct?

                      Woah! I wasn’t aware that my posts are getting recommended. Hehehe.. Which post was it, do you remember?

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            1. Yeah, I know that. Have seen your posts and comments and I was both shocked and surprised at your maturity and knowledge. Remember, I’d commented this on one of your post?


        1. Great! Hahahaha… No, it didn’t.

          It given opportunity to everyone, you know? Today it was Ishi’s day. It might pick your comments some other day. Wait for it!πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚


  2. Celebrate our existence everyday by just treating us right!
    I loved this line.😍
    Why can’t we be seen as a human and not as a girl or a boy!!?
    Is it that difficult?🀐

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  3. Well said, BG; well said. If you ask me, society is a big fat hypocrite that makes nonsensical rules. πŸ™„πŸ™„

    It’s great that you reblogged this old post: now it’ll deserve some more recognition!

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  4. Such a great and empowering first post! I love it! ❀️
    For some reason, I don’t feel comfortable wearing dresses. I always try picking my clothes, imagining if I can cartwheel in them 🀣🀣🀣🀣

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                    1. Hehehe… Let it be a secret.🀣🀣

                      Yeah, had one last week. But, not sure of what’s going on. I got to know today that they’re back and he wasn’t even suffering from Corona. It’s crazy how people are just taken to the quarantine centers for no reason at all.πŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈπŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ

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                    2. πŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈπŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈπŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈπŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ

                      She. The girl who replied to your comment.

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